Extinguishing Fear & Traumatic Stress Counseling & Coaching
Welcome to the Site For Dejaye Botkin, LPC
Welcome to the Site For Dejaye Botkin, LPC
I make all appointments via text messaging.
When you text me for an appointment (203.609.1714), please include the following information in your text:
- Location Desired: (Scottsdale or Ahwatukee)
- Insurance Providers Accepted: (Cigna, BCBS of AZ, Aetna, United HC private, and now ComPsych! Coming soon TriCare and Magellan)
- If you are using insurance - call your insurance to find out your behavioral health benefits and let me know your deductible and co-payment amount
- Type of Service Requested: (Coaching, Counseling, Mediation, Workshop, or Speaking Engagement)
- Date Range and Time Preferred
- For pricing continue to scroll down...
- For intake paperwork scroll down...
- For workshop information scroll down...
Billing or Insurance Questions?
Billing or Insurance Questions?
Please contact my assistant Jenny for billing questions or to sign up for the waiting list. She is available on M/W/F.
480-329-7556
Scottsdale Clients
I am back at 6991 E. Camelback Road
Next Door to Mastro's City Hall
Scottsdale Clients
I am back at 6991 E. Camelback Road
Next Door to Mastro's City Hall
Welcome to the Webpage for Dejaye Botkin
-I am a Licensed Professional Counselor-I am a Certified Mediator
-I am Certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy & Trauma Recovery
-I am an Arizona Clinical Supervisor
I Founded the Following Programs:
Arizona:
Extinguishing Fear & Traumatic Stress for life coaching, mediation, and psychotherapy
@extinguishfearandtrauma on Instagram
The House of Validation for codependency recovery and marriage recovery
@theHouseofValidation on Instagram
A Toast of Luxury @toastlux18 on Instagram
New Jersey:
Sparta Teen Talk
DJB Counseling LLC
The Juvenile Accountability and Leadership Program
Office Locations in Arizona:
-Regus Offices: Moved back to 6991 E. Camelback Road, Scottsdale, Arizona 85281
-Office Evolution: 4435 E. Chandler Blvd, Phoenix, Arizona 85048
-I am also Licensed in New Jersey and I offer telephone counseling for NJ residents
The House of Validation
The House of Validation
Relationship and Family Workshops
Packages:
One day workshop – 5 hours - $125/hour (meals not included)
Two-day workshop- 2-day/5-hour workshops (weekend option only) - $125/hour (hotel/meal accommodations not included)
What to Expect at the Family/Couple Intensive Workshop?
The intensive workshop is intended to address challenging interpersonal relationships in a streamlined solution-focused format. With the intensive workshop you get 4.5 (1/2 lunch break on your own) hours of therapy in one single day.
Topics addressed in the intensive workshops:
• Managing unmet needs
• Learning perspective
• Validating one another’s perspective
• Improving communication skills
• Developing empathy for the other person/people in your family
• Resolving conflicts stemming from built up resentment
• Learning the different love language styles
• Establishing boundaries and setting expectations
• Creating guidelines for moving forward with a clean slate
Booking requirements:
• Workshops require a minimum of two-weeks-notice for scheduling
• A 50% deposit is required prior to the workshop – the other 50% is paid at the end of the workshop
• Deposits are non-refundable
• You must give Dejaye 48 hour notice to cancel the workshop (so that I can unblock the day)
• Each participant must fill out a workshop questionnaire and submit to Dejaye 7 days in advance of the workshop
• All participants must understand that this is a day to come with your defenses down and a willingness to participate in all of the activities
• If a person leaves the group, (walks out in anger), they may not return
• If you attend group under the influence of drugs/alcohol, you will be asked to leave
• Expect to be challenged with positive intentions
Extinguishing Fear & Traumatic Stress
Extinguishing Fear & Traumatic Stress
If you prefer 'less intensive' performance coaching we offer that service, however, please be mindful that insurance does not reimburse for coaching services.
Coaching services can be provided in the office or most East Valley venues.
We offer psychotherapy and intensive counseling services in the above locations and we are in network with Aetna, MHN, and coming soon BCBS and Cigna.
Please be mindful, you must have a diagnosis for insurance reimbursement.
Pricing for Coaching:
In-Person Coaching Session - 90 Minutes: $200
Telephone Coaching - 60 Minutes: $125
Text Coaching - $1.00 per minute
General Psychotherapy Fees
Reference for In-Network Provider Reimbursement Rates:
90791 Intake Session (1st Appointment) $115.50
90832 30 minute session 54.65
90834 45 minute session 73.06
90837 60 minute session 91.33
90847 Family/Couple Therapy 91.77
Fees for Out of Network
Procedure Code Description Rate of Reimbursement
90791 Intake Session $150.00
90832 30 minute session 75.00
90834 45 minute session 125.00
90837 60 minute session 150.00
90847 Family/Couple Therapy 190.00
DROP-IN FORMAT:
Tukee Teen Talk
DROP-IN FORMAT:
Tukee Teen Talk
This is a life skills group for teens who struggle with social anxiety, low self-esteem, bullying, family crisis challenges, self-harm, suicidal ideation, and at-risk behaviors.
We use Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma Recovery, and Solution-Focused Modalities.
Pricing:
$30 Per Group
Click on the picture to the right for registration paperwork
Public Speaking
Public Speaking
Dejaye Botkin was an Adjunct Psychology Professor with Centenary University between 2000 and 2015.
Dejaye presents to school faculty, parenting organizations, and community programs.
Topics Include:
Suicide Warning Signs
Understanding Self-Harm
Understanding Children and Adolescents
Trauma Informed Care
Introduction to Mental Health Diagnosis and Treatment
The Psychology of the Bully
Understanding the LGBTQ Clients
Recognizing High Functioning Autism
Customized Presentations Available Upon Request
Pricing:
$300 Per Hour
(Must have projector for PowerPoint and technical assistance available)
Mediation
Mediation
Many couples who are consciously uncoupling want a conflict-free, low cost separation. Mediation offers the ability to formally separate and/or divorce without going broke. High conflict divorces can cost thousands of dollars and create stress for the whole family. Mediation is private, efficient, and affordable. Mediation services do not grant the divorce, (you still have to go to court for the dissolution agreement), however, during mediation we create the Memorandum of Understanding which is the most important component of divorce, often causing the most distress.
The Memorandum of Understanding Includes:
Property Settlement Details
Child Custody Details
Holiday Planning
College Planning
Alimony and Child Support Expectations
Pricing:
$200 per 60 minute session.
90 Minute Session (recommended) $250
$200 per document
Telephone consultation $3.00 per minute
Clinical Supervision
Clinical Supervision
Dejaye has completed the coursework and testing requirements to become a Clinical Supervisor in the State of Arizona.
Pricing:
$50 per 60 minute session
"Dejaye has been one of the best influences of my life because of her demeanor, ability to tell me the truth, and helping me to change my mindset. I went from feeling like I needed to live in chaos to allowing myself to be happy."

Client, Tempe
Client, Tempe
"Social services is a tough job but so critical in helping people. You did that for me and I appreciate your wisdom, heart, and knowledge more than I can express. You made a difference in our life."

Parent, Scottsdale
Parent, Scottsdale
"Thank you for presenting a wonderful, informative, and dynamic presentation to our district staff. It was evident that a great deal of planning went into preparing this important message. I greatly appreciate your expertise in delivering this much needed program."
Principal, Andover School District
Principal, Andover School District